In the long litany of sports disasters, this one is right up there at the top. Ray Rice is now notorious and nefarious and the video of him brutally punching his then fiancée, now wife, in the face at an Atlantic City Casino elevator will live in infamy. Talk about a horrible, deplorable disgrace. The scourge of domestic violence has reared its ugly head in yet another sector of our society, and it appears that there were some that attempted to cover up and pretty up and even dummy up a very gruesome face.
From the top to the bottom, those involved in the Rice “incident” are embroiled and entangled in the middle of a monster of a mess. The NFL, the prosecutors, and the Baltimore Ravens Organization all are equally culpable. And while no one can pass judgment or throw stones because we all live in glass houses, in this case, broken shards of glass are falling down on a lot of heads even without a single stone being thrown.
Ray Rice and his wife Janay are now the poster children for what domestic violence looks like. The sad part is that they don’t even know it. And as we all know, DENIAL is not a river in Egypt. It’s a terrible thing to have a problem and not know you have it. Just like the emperor and his new clothes, everyone knew the truth except the one the truth was about.
Our prayer is that Ray and Janay get help. This is not a condemnation or denunciation of this young couple. It’s a cold, hard fact that many athletes, both men and women, have “issues” that need to be addressed but are instead swept under the rug in light of their talent. And addressing our issues is not an option; it’s a requirement. Ray clearly has an issue with reckless and uncontrolled anger. As for Janay, she is one of 47 million women in America who are victims of “domestic” violence.
Ray and Janay Rice are just like and no different than Esau and Elijah and Moses and Miriam. These Bible notables had run-ins with rage and fall outs with fury. Anger is a necessary emotion, but when left unchecked and unbridled, it can lead to this tragedy that is now on trial in the court of public opinion.
So let’s not pass judgment or make fun or even forget about Ray and Janay Rice. Their problems and their plight and their trials and their tribulations are not far from the rest of us. Because we’re not perfect, everyone struggles with something. And we all need help with our struggles if we are to conquer the demons that lurk within. The sad truth is that their faults and their flaws and their failures have been laid bare in a way none of us hope ours will ever be.
We conclude with this note: can good come of this? While it does not look like it now, we can only hope that some good will come out of this evil event. And that’s something only God can do.