Tiger Woods is forcing it. At one point, his driving and his putting and his short game and his long career were considered a thing of beauty. But not now. Now, because of sin and shame, he’s forcing it. And forcing it doesn’t work for anybody.
I’ve learned not to force it. And the great players of every sport have learned this truth too. Yes there are times when great players “take over a game” but the situation dictates it, and 9 times out of 10, the players on the court or field yield to the will and way of this great athlete, and there is nothing they can do to stop them.
God knows that we can’t force people to genuinely do anything. And God doesn’t force us either. God knows He could, but He wisely doesn’t. Why? Because forcing people and forcing things is a non-starter. A wise man once said “I won’t force myself to have space in your life because if you know my worth, you’ll create one for me.” Wow. How ‘bout that? And that’s exactly how God feels about us.
Spiritually speaking, we have been taught to “take the Kingdom by force.” This couldn’t be farther from the truth. The Kingdom of God is to be inherited and received and entered into, not forced or built or taken. Yeah. How ‘bout that? In Matthew 11:12 Jesus says “But the kingdom had been subject to violence and evil men were trying to take it by force.” Jesus was not saying that we are to take the Kingdom by force. If you really think about this statement, it doesn’t even make sense. How can mortal men take the immortal kingdom by force?
What Jesus was saying was that the religious leaders of His day (forceful men) were resisting the movement introduced by John, Jesus, and the apostles. The Greek word used for “take by force” means “Forcefully advancing.” The Pharisees and Sadducees, the religious elite of Jesus’ day, were those leaders who wanted a kingdom, but not the kind Jesus was offering. So they were resisting the message and attempting to establish their own rule. But John’s message was true, and if the nation would have accepted it, they would have consequently accepted Jesus. (Bible Knowledge Commentary/Old Testament Copyright © 1983, 2000 Cook Communications Ministries)
So instead of teaching that we should “take the kingdom by force,” we should be teaching to enter and to receive God’s best for us. It’s about choosing, not about forcing. Life is about making good choices. And I, speaking for all of us, have made my fair share of bad ones. And you have too.
So I’ve learned to let the game come to me. It’s not that I’m lazy or that I’m advocating lukewarm living or a lackluster life. Not so. On the contrary, we are to push and press, and progress and proceed in our lives towards our destiny. Our goal should be to meet God every day and to enter the Kingdom of God in every way. Choosing to enter and to receive and to inherit God’s power and presence is a whole lot better that trying to force our way in, which, thankfully, we don’t have to do. So, remember, don’t force it. Let the game come to you.