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U.S. Open - Final Round

Tiger Woods is forcing it. At one point, his driving and his putting and his short game and his long career were considered a thing of beauty. But not now. Now, because of sin and shame, he’s forcing it. And forcing it doesn’t work for anybody.

I’ve learned not to force it. And the great players of every sport have learned this truth too. Yes there are times when great players “take over a game” but the situation dictates it, and 9 times out of 10, the players on the court or field yield to the will and way of this great athlete, and there is nothing they can do to stop them.

God knows that we can’t force people to genuinely do anything. And God doesn’t force us either. God knows He could, but He wisely doesn’t. Why? Because forcing people and forcing things is a non-starter. A wise man once said “I won’t force myself to have space in your life because if you know my worth, you’ll create one for me.” Wow. How ‘bout that? And that’s exactly how God feels about us.

Spiritually speaking, we have been taught to “take the Kingdom by force.” This couldn’t be farther from the truth. The Kingdom of God is to be inherited and received and entered into, not forced or built or taken. Yeah. How ‘bout that? In Matthew 11:12 Jesus says “But the kingdom had been subject to violence and evil men were trying to take it by force.” Jesus was not saying that we are to take the Kingdom by force. If you really think about this statement, it doesn’t even make sense. How can mortal men take the immortal kingdom by force?

What Jesus was saying was that the religious leaders of His day (forceful men) were resisting the movement introduced by John, Jesus, and the apostles. The Greek word used for “take by force” means “Forcefully advancing.” The Pharisees and Sadducees, the religious elite of Jesus’ day, were those leaders who wanted a kingdom, but not the kind Jesus was offering. So they were resisting the message and attempting to establish their own rule. But John’s message was true, and if the nation would have accepted it, they would have consequently accepted Jesus. (Bible Knowledge Commentary/Old Testament Copyright © 1983, 2000 Cook Communications Ministries)

So instead of teaching that we should “take the kingdom by force,” we should be teaching to enter and to receive God’s best for us. It’s about choosing, not about forcing. Life is about making good choices. And I, speaking for all of us, have made my fair share of bad ones. And you have too.

So I’ve learned to let the game come to me. It’s not that I’m lazy or that I’m advocating lukewarm living or a lackluster life. Not so. On the contrary, we are to push and press, and progress and proceed in our lives towards our destiny. Our goal should be to meet God every day and to enter the Kingdom of God in every way. Choosing to enter and to receive and to inherit God’s power and presence is a whole lot better that trying to force our way in, which, thankfully, we don’t have to do. So, remember, don’t force it. Let the game come to you.

Derek Jeter

Derek Sanderson Jeter just played in his last All Star Game and is playing in his 20th and final season with the only team he’s ever known. At the All Star Game he went 2 for 2 and was the darling of the dance. The incomparable heart beat of the Bronx Bombers, Jeter is the poster child of the pinstripe primadonas, and the captain of the team that captivates us all. Jeter’s team, the New Yankees, are the team that we love to hate, and Jeter is a player that we will hate to lose.

Jeter is the heart and soul and the modern “Pride” of the Yankees. He’s won five World Series rings, and lost 2. And the two he lost he hated to lose. And hating to lose, more so than loving to win, is his enduring legacy. His stats are stellar, but stats are only one thing; his persona, on the other hand, is something else altogether. He has what we call “presence.” He fills the room, or the field, for that matter. You know he’s there even without a sound from his mouth or a word from his lips. He‘s a star, a superstar for that matter, and yet his legacy will be in his significance, not his stardom.

Jeter gives us the lesson of longevity, the discipline of durability, and the aura of authenticity. In recent memory, few other baseball players have made such a big deal or lasted such a long time or meant as much to such a broad body of baseball fans as Jeter. The short list may contain Cal Ripken Jr., who played 21 seasons with the Baltimore Orioles. That’s it. That’s the list.

So don’t strive to be successful. Strive to be significant. A dear pastor friend told his congregation that “It is better to be significant than to be successful,” and “It is better to make a difference than to make a dollar.” And here’s one more “it is better:” the Bible says that “It is better for a man to hear the rebuke of the wise than to hear the song of fools” (Ecclesiastes 7:5, RSV). I imagine that Jeter has accepted the rebuke of the wise and rejected the song of many fools in his long, storied career.

So let’s learn the lessons and discern the didactics of Derek Jeter. He is one of the last of those players that I grew up with who truly love the game. In turn, the game has loved him right back, and rewarded him with significance to boot.

Germany's Goetze
Winning it all: there’s nothing quite like it. Winning games is one thing, winning the championship game is another, and is something else all together. Winning at the entry-level is nice, but winning at the highest level is sweet indeed. Beating a bad team is elementary; defeating the best team is doctorial. And we say this because the thrill of victory was amazingly displayed yet again as Germany won the 2014 FIFA World Cup over Argentina in Extra Time (OT for us Americans). Germany fought a good fight and was rewarded for their blood (literally), sweat and tears. Their toil matriculated into triumph as the hero, a sub, scored the winning goal in dramatic fashion.

We all want to win it all. Don’t we? I mean, didn’t Vince Lombardi say, “Winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.” Well almost. On the other side of success, losing, to put it crassly, “sucks.” It hurts and it harms, it dents and it damages, it wounds and it wears, and it leaves us with an empty felling as big and as wide as the Grand Canyon. But enough of losing for now. We’ll learn the lessons of loss another time. For now, it’s time to focus on the win.
Germany's Goetze celebrates his goal against Argentina infront of teammate Mueller during extra time in their 2014 World Cup final at the Maracana stadium in Rio de Janeiro

Winning cures what losing kills. A loss kills or kindles the spirit; a loss embarrasses or emboldens the will; a loss destroys or defines the soul. Take your pick. You are either bitter or better because of a loss, not because of a win. But why all this talk of loss when we want to speak of gain? Because we learn more from our mistakes than we learn from our successes.
German's Win in 2014 FIFA World Cup

And so we have learned that wining is the fruit and the harvest of lack and loss. Wining is the culmination of learning from defeat after defeat, from disappointment after disappointment, and from despair after despair. The reason Christians, above all other believers in the Higher Power, can look forward to victory later and experience victory now is how we deal with death and demise. We may fall seven times, but we get back up every time. In the face of resistance and resentment, opposition and contradiction, tension and turmoil, variance and vitriol, we are victorious. We are more than conquerors through Him that loved us!
Germany's Schweinsteiger holds the World Cup trophy after winning the 2014 World Cup against Argentina in Rio de Janeiro

All of the wins and the victories of David and Daniel, Elijah and Elisha, and Peter and Paul will all seem like Jr. Varsity accomplishments in comparison to the ultimate victory of our Lord Jesus over all the forces of evil. God is angry with the wicked every day; that is why David prayed “Oh, let the wickedness of the wicked come to an end.” (Psalm 7:9). And the good news is that we don’t have to wait until the battle is over, we can shout now! Winning games is victory; winning the championship is triumph. So we can revel in the words of Paul: “Now thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ.” 2 Corinthians 2:14, KJV


We are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him. 2 Corinthians 5:8-9, RSV

“Home James,” is a movie cliché. The original saying (to the coach driver) was supposedly “Home, James, and don’t spare the horses!” In other words, get me home post-haste, James, because that’s where I want to be and that’s where I belong. That’s what LeBron James is doing and that’s what LeBron James is saying. By going home to Cleveland, he’s telling us that the place where we all belong is home.

Home is where the heart is. So said Pliny the Elder. And he was right. And he still is right. You can’t fault LeBron for going home. Home is our front and our border; home is our center and our perimeter; home is our frontispiece and our rear guard. Home represents family, and the foundation of our faith. Home is the place of hot chocolate on a cold winter day, and lemonade where we’ve got it made in the shade. That’s why we say “home, sweet, home.”

Yes, home is sweet. Paul said that to be absent from the body is to be Home – home with the Lord. That’s why Christianity, above all other faiths, gives us hope and a secure future. This world is not our home. And that is why we are so homesick. We long to be over on the other shore; we long to be somewhere over the rainbow; we long to be over in Gloryland. And that’s why we sing I’ll fly away, I’m goin’ up yonder, soon and very soon, and other such songs of a future hope.

Home is the only place we love to come back to. Bill Cosby said that “Human beings are the only creatures on earth that allow their children to come back home.” And that’s not a bad thing. But lest we become too Heavenly minded and are no earthly good, we must remember that we are at peace here on earth because the Lord is at home in our heart. And so, wherever we are, until we reach that celestial city, our Heavenly home, we are at peace, and at home, with Him.

Dorothy said, “There’s no place like home.” And how right she was, and how right she is.

Cross of Calvary
It’s Not That Bad, It’s Not That Hard, And It Can Be Fixed

It may not seem like it now, but Brazil can get past this horrific, horrendous, hideous and horrible loss. Did I say it was a dreadful and almost unbearable loss? Anyway, the point is that they CAN get past it. The question is “will they?” I say they can get past it because my motto is, “it’s not that bad, it’s not that hard, and it can be fixed.” I offer this motto to the Brazilian soccer team and their rioting fans, as the reports of lawlessness in Brazil in the wake of the 7-1 defeat, I mean drubbing, make it seem like it’s the end of the world as we know it. It’s not.

It may not seem like it now, but your worst loss can become your best victory. Just ask Jesus. Lied on, falsely accused, beat and bludgeoned, lashed and lacerated, punched and pounded, flayed and flogged, Jesus should have been dead long before he even got to the cross. But He endured the cross and despised the shame, and now He sits at the right hand of the Majesty on high. Talk about a dramatic turnaround!

It may not seem like it now, but what you’re going through is not the end. In spite and despite how bad the loss, it in fact, it can be a new beginning. Jesus’ death, burial and resurrection indicated the beginning of a new agreement called the New Covenant; it celebrated the birth of a new organism called the Church, and it demonstrated the dawn of a new order called Kingdom of God. Don’t get me wrong; Jesus’s vicarious death was bad, but for us it was the beginning of something very, very good.

It may not seem like it now, with wars and rumors of wars, with the perilous times and precarious seasons, it just doesn’t seem like things are getting any better. Things are hard, but they don’t have to stay hard. Yes sin abounds, but where sin abounds, grace does much more abound. Remember, the more the Egyptians afflicted the children of Israel, the more they multiplied and grew.

It may not seem like things are getting any better now, and in fact at times it seems like things are going from bad to worse, but that’s the irony and the paradox of God. Sin and suffering can be fixed. Our Everlasting Lord can take evil and turn it around for it good; our Sovereign Savior can take wrong and somehow turn it around so that right conquers in the end; and our all and Only Wise God whom Isaiah called Wonderful can take the dark and speak “let there be light.” And guess what? There was light, and for us there will be light in our life, just like there was light in Goshen.

And so I entreat you to adopt my motto: “It’s not that bad, it’s not that hard, and it can be fixed.” Keep saying it until you believe it, and watch God make the crooked straight and the rough plain in your life.


Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.
Proverbs 16:18

Boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy! I didn’t watch the match between Brazil and Germany, and I’m glad I didn’t; and I bet there are those that did watch the match that wished they hadn’t. Final score: Germany 7 – Brazil 1. And it wasn’t that close. It was a jaw-dropping meltdown of epic proportions.

It wasn’t supposed to happen this way. Goliath was supposed to crush little David. The New England Patriots were supposed to defeat the New York Football Giants. Twice. The New York Yankees were supposed to defeat their arch rival, the Boston Red Sox, AGAIN, this time in game four of the ALCS because they had a 3-0 lead. And Brazil was supposed to defeat Germany because they were the HOME team, and they had all of the emotion and momentum. Hmmm. Didn’t quite turn out that way, did it?

It wasn’t supposed to end this way. Tears turned to sobs, weeping turned to wailing, moans turned to groans, and Germany turned Brazil inside out and up side down in the worst home loss in World Cup history. No two countries have played more World Cup games than Germany (104) and Brazil (102), which is amazing when you consider that Tuesday’s semifinal in Belo Horizonte was just the second time they’ve played each other on soccer’s biggest stage.

It wasn’t supposed to be this way. Brazil has hardly been overwhelming, tying Mexico 0-0 in group play and then Chile 1-1 in the round of 16 before advancing on penalty kicks. Even in the quarterfinals against Colombia, a 2-0 lead quickly became 2-1, setting up a tortuous final 10 minutes. And Germany has hardly dominated, either, at least not after waxing Cristiano Ronaldo and Portugal 4-0 in its opener. The scores since: 2-2 against Ghana, 1-0 against the United States 2-1 against Algeria in overtime and 1-0 against France.

Regardless, it wasn’t supposed to turn out quite this way. These two heavyweights climbed into the ring and the expectation was that the home team would ride on emotion and just outrun and outplay and somehow out-duel the Germans on their way to a win that would wow the world. Not so.

And so the moral of the story is this: humility still wins the day. The quality or condition of being humble, having a modest opinion or estimate of one’s own importance or rank, and demonstrating lowliness, meekness and submissiveness is still to be preferred over and above arrogance and insolence, conceit and contempt, derision and disdain. The enemy of winning with dignity is losing with ignominy. But that’s what happened to the Brazilians.

It wasn’t supposed to, but it did. So let’s not let that ever happen to us. Don’t let that ever happen to you. Instead, be humble, be respectful, be modest; be meek and mild not sleek and wild. So let’s learn a lesson from the Brazilians. Pride still goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit still comes right before a fall.

Netherands Goalie Tim Krul

Ok, so I’m not a big soccer fan. In fact, I’m NOT a soccer fan. But I am a sports fan. And this year and this summer we celebrate the world sport of “Football,” and the World Cup has me all would up.

Even if you’re not a soccer fan, if you love sports like I do, you could be and should be a fan of the 2014 FIFA World Cup. And this summer, this sport is on the world stage. How can you not get all in? Some have gone all out and bought team “T” Shirts and flags and taken “slick” leave from work to watch the games. And in watching these games, in sports in general and in soccer in particular, you have to keep your eye on the little things.

My wife and I are not soccer fans, but we caught the end of the Netherlands/Costa Rica match, and wow, what a win. The Dutch had chance after chance, made shot after shot on goal, but nothing, and I mean nothing, would go in the net. Sounds a lot like life. Sometimes we try, and try and try, and nothing will go in. We give our all, only to come up empty. That’s why we need to do it like the Dutch.

Even if you’re not a soccer fan, you have to be a fan of the underdog. In this match, it was anybody’s guess who would win. It was “Underdog A” vs. “Underdog B.” And underdogs know how to make the little things count. Underdogs don’t give up. Underdogs don’t give in. Underdogs don’t quit, because they have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. “When you execute the little things to perfection, then the score and the victory will take care of themselves! The victory will happen. It will happen because each one has done their part. When you do the little things, your collective efforts will come together as a victory.”

Underdogs take gambles and chances, risks and ventures, all in hopes of doing any and every little win to gain the advantage. Dutch coach Louis van Gaal’s gambled and took a chance by calling in their substitute goalie to save the day, and save the day he did. Tim Krul did not let his boss down, saving two of the Costa Rican penalties to ensure that his side progressed and the wonderful run of the Central Americans came to an end.

This was an “underdog” of a move: Coach van Gaal decided that the taller, long-armed Krul would be a better bet if it came to a penalty shootout, so he told Krul in advance but mentioned nothing to the starting goalie, Jasper Cillessen, so that he would not be ”disappointed” before the game. But according to sports writer Daniel Storey, the fact remains however, that Krul’s penalty-saving record is less than auspicious – he has kept out just two of 20 penalty kicks faced in his last five years of domestic football for Newcastle United.

And so the moral of the story is this: “Blessed are the Underdogs.” It’s all about the team, no one player is more important than any other, and it’s the little things that really count. The moral of the story is that sometimes we need to take a calculated risk; sometimes we need to take an educated guess, because doing the little things can make all the difference in the game and in the world.

The US Men’s team came up short but they fought hard against a better team. That’s all we can ask for as a country. Maximum effort and no excuses. If we were to be honest here, our squad just isn’t World class yet. Outside of Tim Howard, who the commentators on ESPN said “doesn’t deserve to be on the losing side”, our team isn’t quite on the level as the 8 remaining countries.

Most kids in the US start out playing soccer and for countless reasons end up drifting into more popular sports like American Football, Basketball, Baseball, and Hockey. Other great competitors include Track and Field, Golf, and Tennis.

Until Soccer becomes a more mainstream and lucrative career path here in the US, I’m not sure if our talent pool will be able to match the rest of the World.

I mean, if you looking at our current roster, quite a few players didn’t even grow up stateside. We’re essentially putting Europe’s B squad out onto the field and hoping for miracles to happen. That’s not a sustainable game plan. The US will eventually need to develop better prospects as Baseball Teams do in their Farm Systems.

Our best Athletes in the US aren’t playing soccer. Until we as a country put out best foot forward, we’ll continue to squeeze into the round of 16 and “hope for the best.”

Observations and criticisms aside, I’m proud of what the US Team was able to accomplish this year and I look forward to what’s in store down the road.-DKH


It has been said that we should play smarter, not harder. The only problem with this half truth is that in sports, even after you’ve played smart, you still need to play hard. And at the end of the day, the physical part of the game still needs to be played, and still needs to be won.

The US Men’s Soccer Team had heart, they had soul, but they lacked “physicality.” That’s the new, made up sports word sports commentators like to throw around when they talk about physical teams and physical players. Technically sound and mechanically correct players don’t grow on trees. And so in the World Cup, and at all of the high levels of sports, an athlete that is technical and mechanical is a good thing. Thus, physicality certainly helps, and the lack thereof certainly hurts.

There are some things that there’s no substitute for. And there’s no substitute for size, power and speed. None. You need height to be a basketball player, you need strength to be a football player (American Football, that is) and you need speed (or at least agility) to be a great player in almost any sport. At least not having any of these doesn’t help, and having any of these doesn’t hurt.

If there is no substitute for heart, and there’s no substitute for soul, it follows that there’s no substitute for having a “body.” Playing virtually does not equal playing actually. You can draw up all of the X’s and O’s you want, but if you don’t execute, it means nothing. The US Team gave it a go, and it almost seemed as if the US would be able to sing the high note of, ” . . . La, Tee, Doe!” – but alas, it was not meant to be. Belgium out ran, out muscled and outplayed the US for 120 minutes. Nough’ said.

On the other hand, the US goalie, Tim Howard, made 16 – count’ em – 16 saves in the match against Belgium. That’s a new World Cup Record. So even if the effort is great, and even though the endeavor is grand, in the end, you still need for it all to come together at the right time. And the reality of that truth only hurts all the more after you’ve played your heart out and still come up short. As we say in America, the solace is, wait till next year (next World Cup).

So we should be proud of our US Soccer Team, because they had nothing left to give after they gave it everything they had.

Rais Mbohli

Please, Lord, please save us. Please, Lord, please give us success.
Ps 118:25, New Living Translation

And the crowds that went before him and that followed him shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest!” Matthew, 21:9-10, RSV

“Hossana!” means “Save we Pray”

How can you not get all wound up over the World Cup? I mean, with Mexico’s loss and France’s win, and the USA in the Round of 16, what’s not to like? At the end of the day, we may long remember the goals that are scored, but we will soon forget the goals that were saved, and we have the goalies to thank for all of it.

Goalies unfortunately don’t get the respect and reverence they rightfully deserve. I mean, for those of us who love scoring, we have to admire and esteem, honor and appreciate the play of the goalies. I mean game in and game out, some of them are turning in some of the most supreme and superlative sessions I’ve ever seen. Just ask Algeria’s goalie, Rais Mbohli.

Goalies are routinely the most animated players on the field, often seen barking orders to the field players who may or may not be actually listening to the lunatic who AGREED to get pelted with 80 mph soccer balls. Algeria’s Rais M’Bolhi kept the Germans out of his net for the first 57 minutes despite a few close calls, and kept the Algerians in the game while keeping the match closer than it could have been by being mobile, hostile, and agile. Algeria eventually fell to Germany, the team that may well be the eventual champion?

As believers, we are to act as goalies, preventing the opposition from scoring on our teams and our troops, our gangs and our groups, and everyone else in between who we care for and care about. We are defenders; we protect and prevent, we shield and we shelter, we safeguard and we are the vanguard – in effect, we work to save. It’s a spiritual concept. Goalies save their teams from losing and from dropping, from being scored upon and from being tallied against. It’s a powerful and sometimes untenable position. But somebody’s gotta’ do it.

God is the ultimate goalie and He is our consummate goaltender. Some may contemptuously counter that they have not been shielded and sheltered from many bad and besetting things. But have you ever asked yourself, what COULD have happened had not the Lord been or our side? The old saints were wont to say that God keeps us from “dangers seen and unseen.” Amen to that.

So be a goalie. Be a goalie for God. Prevent an offense, put an end to an argument, foil a filibuster, scatter an unscrupulous cluster, fend off a frenzy, avert a disaster, save your sister, befriend your brother, rescue a rival, recover a relationship, mend a marriage, and participate in your own resurrection. The life that you save just may well be your very own.


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